Text Me Maybe


Every five minutes, it seems there’s yet another study discussing how computers and social sites are warping our brains, and even literally reprogramming our brains (take this, for example). While I have distinct problems with these theories, I have to admit that there are some phenomena that go a little strange with society hits technology.

No one, for example, bothers with having a thought. You know what those are, right? Thoughts. The datastream in your head that more or less comes out in complete sentences, without texting shorthand. Nowadays, most people seem to speak in 140 characters, or less, and they think that’s enough to convey all they mean.

Take a friend of mine. He was an atheist, but when you called him on the carpet, or threw a net over him, he was down to earth and a nice fellow. They he started posting about Evil Right-Wingers, and the even more vile Catholics. Oh, how horrible they all are!

As you can imagine, I wasn’t having fun at that particular moment with him, and I made a few jokes. Nothing particularly mean, and nowhere near as crude as he put things, but I thought I could get my point across and run.

The ensuing comment thread looked like a strange sort of bar fight, and mostly one-sided.

My “friend’s” defense? “It’s social media.” Like with Twitter and texts, everyone speaks in sound-bites, so everyone is therefore encouraged to make the biggest, boldest, brashest statement imaginable. If one comes off as the biggest schmuck in the room, well then, “it’s just social media.”

If Facebook is to make sociopaths of us all, then there’s a bit of a problem. There’s a reason I de-friended a small horde this election cycle.

Another, completely different friend also complained about getting sucked into conversations with deeply emotionally invested fans of science fiction shows. She would get into the chats, start out civil, and find herself going slowly more and more angry and loud as the conversations went on.

So, it’s obvious that the internet has a negative effect on civility. What can we, as Catholics, do about it?

The answer is simple – walk away. Why? It’s simple. Luke 9:5. They aren’t welcoming you, they aren’t being civil, and not even trying. Shake the dust from your sandals, and get out of the chat room.

Because the internet is a very large place that occasionally looks like a psych ward. And if you play too long with the inmates, they lock you in the asylum. You can see what this sort of thing does to them. Can you see what it does to you?

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Copyright 2012 John Konecsni


About Author

John Konecsni writes under the alias Declan Finn, and has published a few novels at this point, Includingl, It Was Only On Stun!, a murder comedy set at a science fiction convention He also maintains a blog dedicated to his more important novel, A Pius Man. A Pius Man: A Holy Thriller is an anti-Dan Brown novel, centered about clearing the name of Pope Pius XII. The sequel, A Pius Legacy: A Political Thriller focuses on the Catholic church in the modern world. A Pius Stand: A Global Thriller has recently come out, finishing the trilogy. His 6th book has just come out -- Honor At Stake a Catholic, Vampire, YA novel John lives in New York, where he has grown up Catholic, right wing, and a complete and total nerd. After getting degrees in history and philosophy, he has dedicated himself to bringing Truth, Justice, and the Roman Catholic way to anyone he meets.... or at the very least, correct their misapprehensions. It's a full time job, and the pay needs work, though there are some nice benefits attached.

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