To Forward or Not to Forward?

To Forward or Not to Forward?

To Forward or Not to Forward?

“This is Amazing…It is no wonder there are scriptural references to the eagle!”  Thus began an email forwarded to me. An inspirational message about pain as necessary for change stated that an eagle must go through a painful process of ripping out its beak and talons when it is forty years old so that new ones will grow. Then, the majestic bird is allotted another 30 years; able to reach the age of seventy. And when it rains, this mighty bird soars above the clouds—just as we should.

Photographs worthy of National Geographic were spaced between words of encouragement that ended with a command to “forward this message to others”.

The goal of this email, however, was not to inspire. It was to dupe. Eagles only live 30 years, they don’t rip out beaks or talons, and there is no tradition of their flying above the clouds when it rains.

Who would do such a thing?  The same sort of people who have perpetuated some of the top urban legends such as the claim that Mr. Rogers had a former secret career as a trained assassin, and that ATM users can quickly contact police in the event of an attempted robbery by entering their PIN in reverse. The cyberspace is full of lies disguised as inspiration, political alerts, health warnings, and prayers. Many come complete with enhanced photographs. The ones that are especially ironic are those that state, “Even Snopes has confirmed this,” along with a link to Snopes that attributes it as false.  People who forward such emails, obviously do not check the link themselves.

A popular forward among Christians are prayers promising something wonderful if the email gets forward to 10 people in the next 10 minutes.  I’ve had devout Catholics send me prayers and words of inspirations about angels or saints with big promises attached if I forward quickly and to many.  Some people forward them stating, “I don’t usually forward these but….”

There are the anti-Obama emails that claim he and Michelle surrendered their law licenses and another story that college transcripts reveal that Obama received a Fulbright Scholarship only awarded to foreign-born students.  There are so many true stories of concern regarding the current administration that the totally made up ones easily pass into the email traffic.

So what’s the harm? some ask. I don’t like Obama anyways and it won’t hurt people to read a prayer and forward it to 10 friends.  The problem is that such emails discredit the cause that the sender supports.  When people against the President ‘s actions send out these emails, they end up looking like scaremongers. It has the opposite effect than the sender intended.

Do you support Catholic prayers?  If so, then attaching a superstitious formula denigrates true faith. God will answer according to what is best for us. Some accuse Catholics of following formulas when we pray novenas for nine days. The first novena began when the Blessed Mother and the Apostles prayed together for nine days between the Ascension and Pentecost. It is a tradition, not a magic formula. How did the first email forward promising results begin?  Not within our Catholic tradition or authority.

Prayer involves trust and faith, not forwards with demands attached.  Recipients of such emails either think the sender is foolish or they also forward and thereby perpetuate the notion that prayers are superstitious. The person forwarding did not stop to ask:  “By whose authority will I get what I want if I forward to 10 people in 10 minutes?”

Before Forwarding

*  Pause before hitting the forward button and ask, “Can I trust the contents?”

*  Be wary of stories that don’t include names of people and cities where events supposedly took place.  Can the story be verified?

*  Do you like the prayer and find it inspiring?  In such a case, go ahead and forward, but first remove the demands to send to a particular number of people within a set time.

*  Check the message at sites that investigate email claims.



Truth or Fiction

*Follow up.  If you discover the email is a hoax, let the person who sent it to you know and ask that the correction get sent back up the chain.

*  Rely on credible news sources. Avoid messages with no author or news source.

It is sometimes hard to know what and whom you can believe I’ve learned the hard way not to forward even convincing sounding emails. My brother, who is a computer expert and very internet savvy would catch the hoaxes and warn me to check out the stories before forwarding.

Forwarding false or scandalous information does not build up the Body of Christ. We can’t completely hoax proof our emails, but by using good judgment we can at least slow down the traffic.  In the meantime, we can pray that the hoaxers find a better hobby.

Copyright 2013 Patti Maguire Armstrong


About Author

Patti Maguire Armstrong, is the mother of 10, and has a B.A. in social work and M.A. in public administration. Her newest book is Holy Hacks: Everyday Ways to Live Your Faith & Get to Heaven. Others include Big Hearted: Inspiring Stories from Everyday Families and the Amazing Grace Series. Follow her at @PattiArmstrong and read her blog at

1 Comment

  1. Amen! I do not forward anything and stopped feeling guilty long ago about any of the beautiful sentiments that my family and friends might be missing. It is very tempting to share your post, though! Thanks for reinforcing my position.

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