People: Do We Really Have Each Other All Figured Out?


portrait-1115376-mIt’s difficult to remember that what we perceive to be true may not even be close to the truth. As humans we have a tendency to look at a person and make assumptions about what they are thinking or feeling based on their appearance, through body language, facial expressions or personal distance. Most of the time we make sweeping generalizations however we will never know their thoughts or feelings unless we stop assuming and instead start interacting.

Think about the people in your life that you just know you have figured out. Now, think again. Are you making a generalization about that person based on a few encounters or have you stopped and taken the time to get to know them and understand from their point of view.

We are all guilty of this. I think our human nature automatically assesses each situation based on fight verses flight. However, I think our conscience and morality should stop us from judging and help us to embrace others.

Copyright 2014 Lori Hadorn-Disselkamp


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Lori Hadorn-Disselkamp is a mother of four children and is married to the love of her life, Aaron. Lori has been writing at her own website Faith Filled Mom. She writes about the journey of faith we live daily and how we can recognize God in this world. She teaches theology at a high school level and is also a current student of Loyola University Extension Program of Ministry earning a Master’s Degree in Religious Education. Her life is busy, exciting, overwhelming at times but always bursting with her faith in God. Lori hopes that you will find something that might touch your heart in her writing so that she can continue to pursue her purpose in life; to bring people closer to God one word, one moment at a time.

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