The Song that Never Ends

"The song that never ends" by Tami Urcia (

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Do you ever feel like certain aspects of your life are like the song that never ends? Never-ending diapers, never-ending cooking, washing, drying, never-ending home improvement projects. … Drywall, mud, sand, paint. Drywall, mud, sand, paint. It just goes on and on and on. At times I think I’m going to drop from sheer exhaustion and other times I think I would be bored out of my mind if I didn’t have anything to do.

I wonder if the first disciples felt the same way. After Jesus rose from the dead and they were filled with the Holy Spirit, they were told to go out to all the world and spread the Good News. Now that is quite the task! My diaper changes and drywall projects are like a drop in the bucket compared to going out to the WHOLE world!

Yet that is what we are called to do. Be a good example, live a holy life, teach our children, be a light to those around us… Paul invites us in the Book of Timothy to “set an example for those who believe, in speech, conduct, love, faith and purity. [A]ttend to reading, exhortation, and teaching.” That’s a pretty tall order! But Jesus never promised that following Him would be easy.

Perhaps the Pharisee who invited Jesus to dine with him thought the sinful woman who interrupted their dinner was like the song that never ends. Surely he rolled his eyes at her repentance, because he knew “what sort of woman” she was. “She’ll just keep sinning over and over again,” he thought to himself. “She’ll never change.”

The Pharisee had no clue who he was dealing with, who Jesus truly was and how powerful His love is in the changing of hearts. I am often guilty of the same. I feel like I’m stuck in a rut in both my everyday life and in my spiritual life, and I am so tempted to believe that things will never change. Yet the life of a Christian is all about transformation. We should not stop learning, changing, and growing in our walk with the Lord. But above all, we should not allow ourselves to fall into despair and believe the lie that we CAN’T change. Because the One who changes us is our all-powerful God.

May the song that never ends, the one we sing to ourselves in our minds over and over again, be the one that tells how great the love of our God is, so that one of these days, we might truly believe it.

Copyright 2019 Tami Urcia


About Author

Tami is a Western Michigander who spent early adulthood as a missionary in Mexico, studying theology and philosophy, then worked and traveled extensively before finishing her Bachelor’s Degree in Western Kentucky. She loves finding fun ways to keep her four boys occupied and quiet conversation with the hubby. Tami works at Diocesan, does Spanish/English translations and guest blogs. She runs her own blog at Together and Always.

1 Comment

  1. Aida Velasquez - Lims on

    Hello Everyone from

    I’m a new follower in Twitter, I’m so happy to be a part of this page…
    So, I’ve been struggling a little bit with my 12 years old daughter. She attend a catholic school here in Toronto and I come from a very devote family, Catholics till death and beyond, I guess.
    My husband comes from the same kind of background, his family is very religious too.
    My daughter’s name is Fátima, like our Lady of Fatima, in fact, her name is an offer/promise that I made to our Lady of Fatima.
    I wanted to have a Baby, so I prayed many times to our Mother Mary to help me to conceive, because according to the doctors I won’t be able to have a baby, I had a few miscarriages, so I was feeling like giving up…
    But a few months later, there she was, Fatima, our little girl….
    Now she’s almost a teenager and she’s into drawing and animation and all those things that for my age, I can hardly understand, however, what I’ve been noticing lately is that her drawings are turning a little dark and evil, like monsters, ppl with knives and blood and weird eyes, etc… She doesn’t like to go to church much, and when she does, she falls asleep. Is very concerning and upsetting for me…
    My question is, how can I guide her to go back the right path, and get her dark ideas out of her head before is too late, but without pushing her farther away. She’s a sweet girl, but sometimes she’s too negative and her conversation sometimes are shocking and scary… Specially with her age, how can I help her to change her mind from dark and evil, which make her think always in a negative way, to a positive and happy thinking.
    I’m really with not clues, I’m trying, but is not working what I’ve been trying.
    I appreciate so much your time and help.

    God bless you, all!

    Aida Velasquez-Lima

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