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Million Dollar Gift Giving
by Nancy Twigg
Celebrate Simply:
http://www.celebratesimply.com
So you just barely survived Christmas and Valentine’s Day, and now Mother’s
Day and Father’s Day are right around the corner. Every time you turn
around, it seems that another gift-giving occasion is looming on the
horizon. Birthdays, weddings, baby showers, anniversaries, graduations—whew!
Just thinking about it is enough to send you and your budget into a
tailspin.
Is there any relief in sight? Is there a way to control the expense of
gift giving without becoming a Scrooge? Can you actually give meaningful
gifts without emptying your bank account? Rest assured that the answer to
all these questions is “yes”.
Gift giving does not have to be something to dread but rather an opportunity
for you to exercise your creativity. Even those who must watch their
spending carefully can give gifts that reflect the true spirit of giving.
Let’s face it. Anyone can shell out a lot of money for a gift without
putting much thought into it. How many people can give a thoughtful gift
without shelling out much money?
Reflect for just a moment on all the gifts you have received in your
lifetime. Which gifts stand out in your memory? Most likely the gifts you
remember the most are not the ones that cost the most. Gifts like a handmade
picture frame or a memory book created especially for you are not
particularly costly but are indeed priceless. I call these kinds of gifts
“million dollar gifts.”
Million dollar gifts are gifts that make both the giver and the recipient
feel like a million bucks. Instead of a big investment of money, they
require the giver to invest of herself: her effort, her energy, and her
creative talents. These gifts send a very clear message that the giver cares
enough to give one of life’s most precious commodities: her time.
Here are some examples of million dollar gifts. All of these require little
or no money, only your time.
* Can you provide a special service? Give an IOU for a needed service.
Babysitting, mending, ironing, weeding the flower beds, chauffeuring the
kids for the afternoon—anything that would be appreciated by the recipient.
* Is there a special dish or dessert your loved one enjoys but doesn’t get
to eat very often? Give the gift of good taste that also tastes good. Food
gifts make great non-cluttering gifts.
* Are you artistic? Write a poem, compose a song, or paint a picture. Give
the special gift of your unique talent.
* Can you teach a skill or hobby? Offer to provide lessons to that
person who has always admired something you do well.
* What about using your camera or camcorder to create a memorable gift?
Pictures of the recipient’s family members or pets are always special. In
the same way, a keepsake video is something the recipient can watch and
enjoy over and over again.
* Does everyone rave about your creative cooking? Make sure all those
recipes aren’t lost by compiling them all into a handmade cookbook. Giving
this special collection to that family member or friend who enjoys trying
new recipes.
This is only a short list but the possibilities are unlimited. Without
damaging your budget, you can give meaningful gifts as unique as you are.
When you put your mind to it, you will find that instead of dreading the
next occasion for gift-giving, you will look forward to the opportunity give
your own special million dollar gift.
Additional Frugal Living Resources
Nancy Twigg is the author of Celebrate Simply: Your Guide to
Simpler, More Meaningful Holidays and Special Occasions. For more
information on low-cost and low-stress celebrations, visit Nancy online at
www.celebratesimply.com
This article provided by the Family Content Archives at: http://www.Family-Content.com
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