Death into Life


This is not the post I was going to write.  I was going to write about the New Year and resolutions and goals.  But I went to a funeral and so now death is on my mind.

His life was full, cut short by a tragic accident just after Christmas.  Jeff was only sixty-one years old, survived by his wife, brother, and father.  Our pastor gave a homily that told us about the man Jeff was and how he lived life as a disciple, seeing what needed to be done, taking care of it quietly, and not calling attention to himself.  What a beautiful testimony of faith and belief in Jesus.

The funeral Mass was a true celebration of his life.  The music chosen reflected joy that when we pass from this life it is into new life.  The recessional song was “Soon and very Soon” with the verses telling us “we are going to see the King” and that there is “no more crying there”.

It was during communion though that my thoughts and prayers came together.  We sang “Amazing Grace” by Chris Tomlin.  As I sang, “these chains are gone, we’ve been set free” I realized that Jeff has been set free of what bound him in this life.  Whatever questions, doubts, and troubles he had are gone and are replaced with a surety that Jesus has saved him and set him free.

And so that is cause for celebration.  While we are here on earth we strive to live as disciples and stand firm in the belief that we are free because Jesus has saved us, but we still doubt.  We have our struggles. I suppose that is the human condition.  My prayer then is for my eyes of faith to be opened more fully and to believe what God shows me.

Copyright 2014 Deanna Bartalini

photo source: Ricardo Bernardes on Flickr


About Author

Deanna G. Bartalini, is a Catholic writer, speaker, and educator. She and her husband Deacon John have two married children and a grandson. Deanna loves teaching about Catholicism and how it fits into our daily lives. She writes at, serves as the editor of the blog, and is a contributor there as well as at Deanna contributed to A Catholic Mom's Prayer Companion published by Ave Maris Press. She has written “Invite the Holy Spirit into Your Life: Growing in Love, Joy, Peace, Patience, Kindness, Goodness, Faithfulness, Gentleness and Self-Control” one book in the series of the Stay Connected Journals for Catholic Women published by Gracewatch Media. Deanna is available to lead retreats and speak at catechist and ministry events.

1 Comment

  1. Glad to see your post about the positive side of death, Deanna. Although we are sad for our own loss when a loved one passes, we often forget that going “home” is what our lives are all about. Our trial can finally be over. No more suffering or sorrow, only peace and love! As you say, that is cause for celebration!

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