Daily Gospel Reflection for October 26, 2014



Today’s Gospel: Matthew 22:34-40

The two great commandments sounds easy enough, don’t they? Of course we love God above all. Of course we love our neighbor. Well, at least we try…

But, do we love ourselves? Do we really truly love ourselves? Most of us could quickly run off a list of things we like about ourselves – something we do well, a particular physical feature, a special quality – but to love ourselves in our entirety is another thing. Not many of us do that with a measure of success.

The problem is that we compare ourselves to others and focus on the things about ourselves we don’t like. We evaluate ourselves according to human standards not according to God’s standards. God is incapable of making mistakes.

He made you, and therefore you cannot be a mistake. Even with your human weakness, you are a child of God who is worthy of love. It takes courage and prudence to love ourselves the way we should. We need courage to love ourselves in spite of our limitations and prudence not to love ourselves in a disordered or excessive way (as in the case of narcissistic personalities). But with God’s grace, we can do it. Once we love ourselves the way we ought, we’ll be able to love our neighbors as we ought – as we love ourselves.


What – honestly – is my self ­image? Is it balanced, or unbalanced? What are ten things that I can truly love about myself?


God, You know my limitations, but you also know my gifts. In your goodness, you love me completely and wish me to love others completely. Please help me to first love myself as I ought so that I can then love my neighbor as myself. Amen.

Copyright 2014 Marge Fenelon


About Author

Marge Fenelon is a longtime contributor to a variety of Catholic and secular publications and author of Waiting with Mary; Advent Reflections for Those Who Hate to Wait, and Ecce Mater Tua - Behold, Your Mother; Marian Stations of the Cross (both self-published), When's God Gonna Show Up? and When's God Gonna Call Me Back? (both published by Liguori Publications). Her latest book, published by Our Sunday Visitor, is Strengthening Your Family: A Catholic Approach to Holiness at Home (2011), the Foreword of which was written by Timothy Cardinal Dolan. She’s a regular guest on Sacred Heart Radio's "Son Rise Morning Show" and has appeared on many others, including "Conversation with the Cardinal" with Cardinal Dolan, Relevant Radio's "Morning Air," and Spirit Catholic Radio's "Inside the Pages." She's an enthusiastic speaker and small group leader, and has invigorated audiences in a variety of venues.

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