Keeping Holy Week Sacred Amidst the Hullabaloo



Editor’s note: A year later and as we anticipate another beautiful Holy Week, I am praying for you and your family! Feel free to use the combox below to let us know how you will be celebrating the week with your family! Lisa

I must confess that this year it feels a bit ironic to be writing about the concept of keeping Holy Week sacred. As you read this, I am on a cross country road trip with my parents. As I drive them from Mississippi to California to spend Easter weekend with us, several other members of my family will be traveling from various points to also be with us. All told, when we celebrate the Eucharist at Easter Sunday Mass, we’ll have family from all over the country with us at Mass. They’ll be sleeping on couches and beds all over my house for the Triduum.

So how, in the midst of all of the lovely family bustle, are we going to keep a sacred Holy Week? Please note: this is not a rhetorical question. I’m honestly asking! Perhaps you’ve “been there, done that” in past years. If this is the case, I sincerely hope you’ll chime in below in the combox and give me your advice!

For the record, I’ve given this topic much thought and prayer. I’ve come up with a few special goals for the coming week to keep our home immersed in prayer and preparation for Easter Sunday:

  • Pray the gospels daily – While we are on our road trip, it’s unlikely that my parents and I will be able to get to Mass every day of Holy Week. But we can easily follow the daily gospels and reflect upon them together. Beginning with Palm Sunday of the Lord’s Passion, the gospels build toward Easter. Even if our families are unable to make it to daily Mass, we can read the gospel each day in our home and prayerfully reflect upon it with our children.
  • Continue to journey with those in need around the world with CRS Rice Bowl Resources by sanctifying our continuing prayer, fasting and almsgiving:
    • Webinar: Watch CRS’s reflective webinar, “Preparing for Holy Week,” to learn how you can integrate CRS Rice Bowl resources into your Holy Week experience.
    • Stations of the Cross: Journey with Jesus to Calvary with these Catholic social teaching inspired Stations of the Cross.
    • Seven Sorrows of Mary: Contemplate the role Jesus’ mother, Mary, played throughout his life with these Seven Sorrows of Mary.
    • Memes for Holy Week: Tweet the Gospel with these Holy Week memes, designed for your community’s social media reflection.
    • CRS Rice Bowl App: Download the CRS Rice Bowl app to accompany your Holy Week journey here.
  • Watch a sacred movie together: There are many great movies in theaters right now that are stories of faith and hope. Of particular interest among recent releases are RISEN, MIRACLES FROM HEAVEN and THE YOUNG MESSIAH.
  • Adopt an RCIA Catechemen or candidate and pray for them: Our Catechumen and Candidates become full members of the Catholic Church at the Easter Vigil by means of baptism, confirmation, and eucharist, which are referred to as the Sacraments of Initiation. Even if you do not formally “know” someone entering the Church this year at the Vigil, consider placing a special candle in the center of your family table. Light the candle before each evening meal this week and pray together for those who will join us joyfully at the Eucharistic table this Easter weekend.
  • Attend Triduum Services in Your Parish: Even in the midst of busyness and family time, carve out time this Holy Week to spend these most sacred moments at your parish. The liturgies of Holy Thursday, Good Friday and the Easter Vigil are such a beautiful way to join together with the Universal mystical Body of Christ. I do fully recognize the challenge this presents both for busy families and for parents of little ones. But I’m challenging you, as I challenge myself, to gift your family this time together.
  • Make Mass together the focal point of your Easter. Yes, moms out there are planning “what’s for brunch” on Sunday. But have we given equal consideration to how we will be “spiritually feeding” our loved ones? Attending Mass as a family on Easter can also be a way to lovingly bless those who may have been away from the Church or who have never experienced Mass.

How will you be sanctifying Holy Week in your home this year? Please chime in below and share your thoughts and suggestions with our community!


About Author

Lisa M. Hendey is the founder and editor of and the bestselling author of the Chime Travelers children's fiction series, The Grace of Yes, The Handbook for Catholic Moms and A Book of Saints for Catholic Moms. As a board member and frequent host on KNXT Catholic Television, Lisa has produced and hosted multiple programs and has appeared on EWTN and CatholicTV. Hendey hosted “Catholic Moments” on Radio Maria and is the technology contributor for EWTN’s SonRise Morning Show. Lisa's articles have appeared in Catholic Digest, National Catholic Register, and Our Sunday Visitor. Hendey travels internationally giving workshops on faith, family, and Catholic technology and communications topics. She was selected as an Elizabeth Egan Journalism Fellow, attended the Vatican Bloggers Meeting, the “Bishops and Bloggers” meeting and has written internationally on the work of Catholic Relief Services and Unbound. Hendey lives with her family in the Archdiocese of Los Angeles. Visit Lisa at for information on her speaking schedule or to invite her to visit your group, parish or organization.


  1. I look forward to my Big Kids being here! My older son will bring home at least one instrument and join us as a musician at Mass for Easter. That is a gift that never gets old.

    If you can, go to Adoration–but do that before Thursday! My parish has a Perpetual Adoration Chapel but it closes in the early afternoon on Holy Thursday and reopens after the Easter Vigil has been celebrated. Spend even a few moments at Adoration this week!

  2. Four years ago we sold our house and the closing date (based upon the buyer’s closing on their other home) was selected as Holy Thursday, leaving us to actually move on Good Friday. It was a really strange feeling to be caught up in the craziness of moving our household, complete with a 2 and 4 year old, during a time of solemnity. We chose to continue to talk about the meaning of the day while moving and committed to keeping it as a quiet time in the future. One thing I will say is that it made the peace of Easter particularly special that year.

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