Consecrating Myself to Mary Changed My Life, and It Can Change Yours, Too

"Consecrating Myself to Mary Changed My Life, and It Can Change Yours, Too" by Judy Klein (

Copyright 2017 Judy Klein. All rights reserved.

As the centennial anniversary of Our Lady’s appearance in Fatima is upon us, many Catholics are marking this special occasion by consecrating, or re-consecrating, themselves to the Immaculate Heart of Mary. I am happily in the second category.

After strongly encouraging an online friend, Mike, to make a Marian consecration (a man I’ve never met who has emailed me over the years to share faith struggles and seek a deeper relationship with Christ), I decided to join him in the 33 Day Consecration to Mary’s Immaculate Heart in honor of the May 13 Feast of Our Lady of Fatima.

Why? Because consecrating myself to Mary totally changed my life.

Having been a child of the ’60s and ’70s, I had bought into many of the movements and ideologies impregnated into our culture during that era, including the distorted notions that: 1) men are primarily “male chauvinistic pigs,” 2) “equality” as a woman means beating men at their own game, and 3) sexual liberation is the key to personal freedom and happiness.

A wounded notion of femininity had formed me as a young woman, and strong remnants of it still lingered within my mind and heart when I experienced an adult conversion to Christ and eventually, a “reversion” to Catholicism nearly 30 years ago. This battered understanding of femininity showed up in various ways in my life, from refusing to submit myself to a “bunch of old men in the Vatican” whom I believed had no business telling me what to do with my sex life, to harboring bitterness and anger toward various men who had hurt me. Equally strong was the sentiment that I did NOT want to be like the Blessed Mother, whom I perceived as a voiceless doormat.

Enter the Marian consecration.

A friend had told me about St. Louis de Montfort’s Preparation For Total Consecration, promising that consecrating my life to Mary would lead me closer to Christ. While growing closer to Christ appealed to me very much, the idea making myself Mary’s “slave” (to quote St. Louis de Montfort’s language) definitely did not. Nevertheless, I took a leap of faith and completed the 33-day consecration anyway, a story that I share at length in my book Mary’s Way: The Power of Entrusting Your Child to God. Shortly thereafter, unexpected fruit began to appear in my life as the blocks and distortions in my mind and heart began to fall like dominos.

The first thing to go was my strong resistance to the authority of the Church, and by extension, the men who make up her hierarchy. Next to go was the unapologetic practice of contraception, and with it, my seemingly unresolvable objections to being open to life. Next was my overt opposition to the doctrines of papal infallibility and sacramental confession, as well as the dogmas of Mary’s Immaculate Conception and Assumption.

Almost miraculously, what previously seemed ridiculous to me started to make perfect sense, and I began to notice an inner shift concerning my self-concept as a woman—a shift that resulted in deep healing of my sexual wounds and sins and freedom from long-held unforgiveness and anger toward various men in my life. Additionally, a course correction ensued regarding my perception of Mary herself, whom I came to understand not only as a formidable woman of faith, hope and love, but as the Woman that all women are called to emulate; indeed, the graced ideal of femininity in which all women are meant to participate.

In no uncertain terms, all of this followed almost immediately upon my consecration to Mary, ultimately leading me to a greater love of Christ and the Church. Needless to say, I urge people everywhere I go to consecrate themselves to Mary, using either St. Louis de Montfort’s Preparation for Total Consecration or a newer version of the consecration, Fr. Michael Gaitley’s 33 Days to Morning Glory. The centennial anniversary of Fatima is the perfect time to join Mary’s growing army of devotees, an army I believe will be extremely instrumental in the realization of the New Evangelization of the Church and the world.

Are the graces of Marian consecration for women only, or can men also benefit from them? I’ll let Mike’s email, which I received as he prepared to make his consecration, speak for itself:

Dear Judy,

Just a quick note to say that this grace of a stronger or fuller devotion to St. Mary, the blessed mother of our Good Lord, has been so good for my spiritual life. I am very grateful to Jesus for this privilege. I really and truly now see her as my primary prayer partner, my glorified saintly spiritual director, and my own mother. 

You were right: it makes for a very significant development in one’s relationship to Christ, His Body, and His Kingdom to put St. Mary in her rightful place, so to speak…

May the “Prince of Peace” (Is. 9:6) continue to be with you and your dear family,


To Ponder: Have I consecrated myself to God through the Immaculate Heart of Mary?  Am I willing to make the consecration now?

Copyright 2017 Judy Klein. This article previously appeared at Aleteia and is reprinted here with kind permission.


About Author

Judy Landrieu Klein is an author, theologian and inspirational speaker whose first book, Miracle Man, chronicles her late husband Bernie's near death experience and miraculous deathbed conversion. Her new book, Mary's Way: The Power of Entrusting Your Child to God, is a imprint book published by Ave Maria Press. Judy shares her insights about the spiritual life at her blog, Holy Hope, at


  1. Thank you, Judy. As a man, I find your story inspiring and relevant. There is something to Marian Consecration, to which I would add the enthronement of the Sacred Heart of Jesus. Good stuff.

    • Thanks for your comments, Cayman! I agree…the enthronement of the Sacred Heart of Jesus was very powerful for our family also. May the Lord bless you and your family! Judy

  2. It suddenly struck me how this relates to something I’ve been promoting among my online acquaintances for the past year: swearing fealty to Jesus.

    This is more than just “accepting Jesus as my Savior” or “being born again”. I came to this realization when meditating on Matthew 25:31–46, the parable of the sheep and goats at the end of days. This parable is a good example of what each requires from the other in an oath of fealty.

    You may recognize that you are a subject of the king (as in, Jesus is my Lord and Savior). To pledge fealty, though, is a personal act: you kneel before your lord, the king, and fold your hands. The king then takes your hands between his, and you both recite an oath of fealty, which usually includes (on the part of the peasant or lower gentle) to pay the taxes, to follow the king’s laws and commands, and to serve in his army to do battle when called upon. The king, in turn, promises to feed the person and clothe them in times of need, to protect them, and lead them in battle if need be. It was understood that promising to be in a battle was the same as promising to die for the other person (king OR peasant).

    I think it’s clear that Our King HAS fed us (with His Body and Blood), HAS clothed us (with the Armor of God — Ephesians 6:10-18), STILL leads us in battle against the Evil One, and has, in fact, died to save us.

    This Consecration to Mary is the Marian form of swearing an oath of fealty to Our Queen, the Queen of Heaven and Earth.

    I’ve been slugging my way through St. Louis de Montfort’s book, as my ADHD mind makes it difficult to concentrate on what he is saying. (It’s available online at Yet, as soon as I finish it, I will be prepped to make the consecration and swear my fealty to Queen Mary

  3. Thank you, Judy! As a fellow Catholicmom contributor and consecrated child of our Blessed Mother, I have publicly testified on numerous occasions that the graces of Marian Consecration not only perfect us but, for me, has been the very thread by which my faith has hung without snapping during very difficult times. Our dear Blessed Mother lived then and lives NOW only to draw us closer to Jesus and form us in her Immaculate Heart into His image and likeness! This is the beauty of consecrating ourself to Jesus through Mary!

  4. Amen, Brian! Being consecrated to Our Lady definitely makes all of the difference in one’s life. I am eternally grateful for the difference it’s made in mind.

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